Cinderella: The Liar

           There is no fairy godmother. We are not special. Now, get up, turn off the television, and make a change. That change is to spice up your love life , don't become the slightly overweight football-mom watching soap operas to get your kicks.

    That soap opera love scene is probably impossible, but wouldn't we like to give it a try. Romance doesn't happen the way it does in the movies, we have been fed fantasy our entire lives. Growing up watching Beauty and the Beast only to realize that the beast doesn't transform into prince charming.

     It's not all their fault, we let them. As women it doesn't take much to get your mans motor running so why add a little STP to their engine. Saying "I love you" while buttoning their shirt before work could be a pre warmer  to an evening of unbuttoning.

    Romance does not have to be complicated or scary, practice makes perfect right? In any case, the more time we spend with our partners the stronger our relationship becomes.

      We don't need to spend hours reading magazines and love sites for advice, just do what comes natural. Even animals gives their mates flowers.

     If the romance in the relationship has sunk like the Titanic, start adding in these few tips every day and feel the ice melt.
    1. Cook their favorite dinner and dress up or down . It's okay to skip to the chocolate covered strawberries first, no rules .

   2.Send them a sweet message or leave a note in their briefcase or on the nightstand. Its a wonderful way to start the day and they can't wait to talk to and see us later.

   3. Be confident in your body. Only our partners get to see us naked, they don't notice our self-obsessed flaws so don't drab the mood by complaining about them. Lingerie can help us be more confident and can be shipped privately to our homes.

   4. Romance is not just about sex, its about making them feel special. As we all know, no one else is going to make us feel this way. The best way to show we care is a long hug, or just brushing your hands through their hair.

    5. In all cases, back scratches and massages always win.

Remember no one is perfect and romance doesn't come in a well written script for us. Just put ourselves out there and our partners will follow.